Not everyone is great at shopping or expressing their feelings, making Valentine’s Day an anxiety-ridden event. Men wondering how to observe it should consult their partner’s parents and friends for suggestions, ThriftyFun says. Still stuck? Those with kids can give their partners the gift of a few hours of “me” time, entirely alone. Massages — do-it-yourself or professional — make for a relaxing respite from everyday stresses. Hide thoughtful notes she can discover throughout the day. Or volunteer to watch that romantic comedy you’ve been avoiding without complaints. Such gifts cost little, but mean a lot.