The best time to have a conversation about #decluttering and #downsizing with a parent is long before you need to, says Reader’s Digest — when they are still healthy, independent and not in the middle of a move. That way, they can decide where the most meaningful items will go in a more directed, yet theoretical way. Avoid using words that subtly undermine the value of their lives’ possessions such as “#trash” or “#junk,” and instead use words such as “preserve,” “repurpose” and “donate” to help them let go. Start by asking which items matter to them most — it may not be what you think. #FathersDay
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Give Dad the Gift of Decluttering
Show dear old #Dad that you care on #Father’s Day by helping with a few household tasks, says SpaceWise. You can help out with his lawn and landscaping, install or troubleshoot software, or paint a room. Or you can #organize a closet, #declutter the garage or basement, or help prep the home for #downsizing. Any help you can lend will be a thoughtful gesture that shows you care. And if you find anything that still might be useful to other families, you can easily give it a second life by #donating it to ClothingDonations.org with a #free #donation #pickup. #FathersDay
Help Dad Increase his Decluttering ‘Toss Rate’
Confronting a lifetime of #possessions isn’t an easy challenge for anyone, so how can you help an aging #father #downsize? It’s more than just asking them to tackle their own #clutter, because like most people, they can get distracted by the #memories engendered in an object and lost track of the task. Getting involved in the process — holding up each item, one at a time, for consideration and a decision — results in better “toss rates,” says The Homes I Have Made. “It forced him to truly confront the volume of items he owned. As he fatigued with the decisions, they became easier to make.” #FathersDay
Make Summer Memories Without the Clutter
#Summertime is ripe for making #memories. People are out and about, taking time off from work and school, and visiting with friends and family at all sorts of warm-weather events. They’re also often buying #stuff they don’t need.
The good news is that you don’t need to buy a lot of #junk or spend a lot of #money to have fun. There are lots of #thrifty ways to enjoy summer and preserve the memories without adding a ton of #clutter to your home.
Let’s say you’re on a budget (and with prices on everything from hamburger to gasoline rising fast, who isn’t?) and have #kids at home. Take advantage of the public pools, playgrounds and parks in your area, or choose from a range of low-cost activities from Modern Parents, Messy Kids.
Brainstorm a list of ideas for your perfect summer and get the family involved, says Smart Mom, Smart Ideas. Then, “eliminate anything you can’t afford, eliminate things [that are] too far away and eliminate things with too many constraints” to create and your bucket list and plan events.
If a summer #vacation is on that list, keep #costs and #clutter at a minimum by skipping most of the souvenirs. Instead of plasticky gewgaws, bring home small, useful gifts such as local spices or handmade items, suggests Saskia’s Travel Blog: “I collect moments, not magnets.”
Make preserving your summer memories simple by taking photos and printing a few favorites for display. Keep a scrapbook to organize tickets, maps and papers. Learn a local recipe for later use, or buy exactly one special item that you can’t get anywhere else. If you must buy a souvenir, make it #sustainable and consumable — the local crafts or foodstuffs, for example.
To maintain memories without adding to the piles of stuff in your home, #minimalist Jules Acree says to write about your experience or take a photo. Only buy and keep #things that you use regularly, would pass down to your children or would grab “if your house was on fire.”
You can make summer memories without creating clutter. And nothing lasts like a memory!
A Vegetable Garden Suitable for Beginners
If your interest in #gardening leans toward the edible rather than the decorative, many #vegetables and #fruits are easy to grow and yield plenty of good-for-you produce, Shifting Roots says. Lettuce, for example, sprouts fast from seed and keeps growing after you cut it. Similarly, kale and Swiss chard take off even in shady spots, providing healthy greens throughout the summer. Beans, potatoes and zucchini require very little attention, and root vegetables such as carrots, onions, beets and turnips mature underground without much attention to the above-ground foliage. Broccoli and cauliflower are less forgiving to the beginner though. #GardeningTips